Dealing With Disappointment
by Daniel N. Brown
Have you experienced any disappointments lately? What a dumb question, right? Life is full of disappointments.
Disappointment is nothing more than dashed expectations. When people
put too much expectation on things or other people, disappointment is
inevitable. People and things will always disappoint us.
It's good to remember that it’s not so much what happens to us,
but how we handle it. When our expectations are let down it will be at
that moment when we must decide how to react.
When things don’t prosper or succeed according to our plan, the
first thing we feel is disappointment, and that's normal. There is
nothing wrong with feeling disappointed. But, we must know what to do
with that feeling or it will move into something more serious.
The enemy would like for nothing more than for us to lie in the pit of
disappointment for as long as possible. This way he can cause the seed
of discouragement to grow. From there, he can plant seeds of
depression, and so on.
Here are the progressive evil D’s in order:
1. Disappointment
2. Discouragement
3. Depression
4. Despondency
5. Despair
Disappointment, if left undelt with, will inevitably lead to
discouragement, then to depression, then to despondency, and then on to
despair. It’s in despair where people have lost all hope and
could potentially commit suicide.
If you are still feeling disappointed from past dashed expectations,
let me remind you, God is in complete control and He knows right where
you are.
If we are born again, children of the Most High God, then He takes care
of us. Jesus said, “Take no thought for your life” (Matthew
6:25) and “Be anxious for nothing” (Philippians 4:6).
God doesn’t want us to worry. He wants us to trust Him because He
has a perfect plan for our lives (Jeremiah 29:11). Yes, we are to plan
our way but the outcome is totally in God’s hands (Proverbs 16:9).
Remember, disappointment is nothing more than dashed expectations.
Don’t put too much expectation on anything or anyone. People and
things are fallible. Only God is infallible. Trust Him with all your
heart and lean not on your own understanding, for He makes all things
work together for our good according to His purpose for our lives
(Proverbs 3:5, Romans 8:28).
Daniel N. Brown is an entrepreneur and teacher of biblical success
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